Showing posts with label In Memory of. Show all posts
Showing posts with label In Memory of. Show all posts

Monday, June 2, 2014

*Monday Memos*

*Monday Memos*
 

dear memorial day, we used to always go on vacation on Memorial weekend, but once Tyson passed away, we have only done that a few times because I guess we feel a need to stick around and honor his memory.  I know he wouldn't want us to do that, but somehow it always works out that way.  And besides, Dave was on call again this year and we couldn't have gone anywhere even if we had wanted to.  It seems like he always gets call on all the holidays.
I think Tyson's area turned out pretty nice...  
It represents his love of Hawaii.  There are some other things that you can't see that are hiding in the back...like a really cute HERO wreath from Dave's mom and some other plants.
We miss you Tyson... 
We remember...
 My parents ↑
 The whole gang!
 At the cemetery ↑
 As per tradition we went out to breakfast after visiting the cemetery.  We have always gone to Bert's, but this year we decided to go to Moore's.  BIG mistake!  We had to wait for an hour to get our food.  The food is great, but not sure worth the wait!


After breakfast we came home and Dave and the boys did a lot of yard work, while I organized Taylor's mission letters.  Then we all headed to Ogden and went to eat at Costa Vida! YUM YUM YUM!  I LOVE their salads!  Dave and I shared one.  I forgot to take a picture!  Probably because Bryce gave me a hard time when we took one at breakfast.  He thinks I'm weird for taking photos when we are out to eat.  I probably am, but I like the pix for my blog and for the memories!  So this  ↓ is compliments of Google.
 Then we went to the Megaplex Theatre and watched Captain America.  It wasn't a movie I would have ever chosen (the boys did), but it was actually good. Quite violent, but a good plot and story which surprised me.  The theater there is so nice and comfy.  It was a fun way to spend the holiday.


dear deer (again!), I tried to get a shot of you when you were stretching and eating the tree above you.  It would have been great, but as soon as I opened the door you stopped.  I love having you visit my backyard frequently.  


dear mr. cat, once again I can't resist taking a photo of your relaxed state of sleeping.  I just want to cuddle and kiss you when you look like this.  Luckily, you actually let me kiss you and pet you when you are in this state, because you never do otherwise... well, inless it's 3 a.m. and you want some love.


 
dear trail run, jen took some great action shots today of us running.  Well, of me running.  I took some of her as well.  It was so GORGEOUS on the trail today!  We went up above the Mantua Dam and ran on the new bike trail.  We mostly hiked up and ran down.  Good for my legs since I'm still in marathon recovery mode.  We had to keep stopping to take in the view and take photos.  It was so therapeutic!  It did my soul good.  We even got sprinkled on with a light rain.  PERFECTION!



dear ward cleanup, I wish I would've taken some pictures when we were actually cleaning up the outside of the ward building, but I forgot.  I could have got some great ones of McKay and his buds.  At least I remembered to take this one of us feasting after the work.  We have a great ward and I am so happy we have such great peeps in it.  Dave wasn't able to make it because he was on call and had to work late.
Oh, I just saw McKay in this picture!  I didn't even know he was in it when I took it.  He is in the black shirt sitting at the table on the far right facing the church in the middle.

dear outside plants that I spent a fortune on, I usually do my own porch pots and other planted pots, but this year I went with Bonnie to purchase some for Mother's Day and couldn't resist getting some of my own.  The ones on my front porch aren't looking super healthy which I feared because the intense sun and heat always seems to take it's toll on those. One year I had to re-pot them three times before the summer was over.
 These are still beautiful!  Click to enlarge to see the details on the bottom left one.  It is just so pretty!  The one on the bottom right is just one that lived from last year.


This one ↓ is not looking so good and it makes me sad because it was BEYOND beautiful when I brought it home.  Wish I had a picture of it then.  I hope it will come to and snap out of it.  It's a good thing Dave is taking on their care because I have a BLACK thumb!


dear brownie mint cookies!  Oh how I love you!  I made a ton so I could take some to the ladies I visit teach, but I think I ate more than my share!  So. Delicious!

Yeah, I am sure I "suffer" from this ↓ though I wouldn't actually call it suffering!

dear I really HATE snakes!  No there is no snake in this photo because I wasn't going to STOP and take out my phone and snap a picture. I was too busy screaming bloody murder and running faster than I have ever run to get as far away from that thing as possible!  It had to be 4 feet long and just slithered right in front of me while I was on the Bird Refuge Trail.  The trail ended and I had to run in a patch of grass and I started to freak out thinking that if I were a snake, that is where I'd be and right then, sure enough, one goes slithering RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME!  I nearly stepped on him!  I'm sure my scream was heard in Idaho!  Oh my!  The heart rate went higher than I've ever got it while running!  I could not wait to get back on the asphalt!

dear taylor (aka elder wilding), there are no words needed for this picture ↓ other than maybe "wow".

I am very impressed with your cake making and decorating skills.  You made this ↓ for a baptism party and it turned out very cool!  I can't believe you even attempted to do a tier cake.  LOVE IT!  That's my boy!  At this rate, you will be able to make your own wedding cake instead of asking me to do it!
 Baptism....

 I am amazed at the dirt floor in the photo on the top right ↓.  I guess you are used to that, but that is just crazy to me.

The World Cup is coming and so it sounds like Brazil is going crazy getting excited and ready for it. I"m glad you are having fun with all the accessories for it.

I am soooooo proud of this boy!  He is an outstanding missionary!  He's been out 19 months!  Only five more to go!  Yippee!

Monday, December 5, 2011

♥Tyson ~ Forever In Our Hearts♥ Gary the Dog ♥ Taylor Basketball

It it truly hard to believe it's been six years. Hard to believe that's it's only been six years and also hard to believe it's already been six years.

I have a love hate relationship with anniversaries like these. I am glad we have them so we do remember (as if we'd ever forget!), but I also sometimes wish they didn't happen so we could forget. Not Tyson, of course, (that would NEVER happen!) but the fact that he is gone and no longer with us. And the re-living of that "day".


This year was especially tough for me for some reason. And I think Tyson knew it would be and so he sent me some amazing friends to help make the day a little easier to deal with.

Like this ↓ one!
How I love my little Kit Kat!


And my dear friends who were so thoughtful and brought me a card, a text, or a gift from the heart. I appreciate them so much. They have no idea how much it means to me that they even remember. I truly love them for that.



But THIS dear- dear friend really out did herself. She made me a Tyson's Favorite Things quilt.
I knew she was working on it, because she asked me to help choose some of the fabric for it (I didn't do a good job at getting that done and so she ended up doing most of it), but she made me think it wouldn't be done until at least Mother's Day. Sneaky woman! I was NOT expecting it at all!
It is the most amazing quilt! She is the most talented woman!
She got the FAVORITE'S idea from the talk Dave gave at Tyson's funeral. I always would write a list for the boy's to list their favorite things in their journals about every six months (or less). His favorite's on this quilt came from his last favorite's list. What a treasure to have this!

What a gift!
I can NEVER thank her enough for this. And she actually brought it over the day before, which was a much harder day for me than the actual day. Can I say it was well received! What a blessing to have such generous, caring, and compassionate friends!
Trying real hard NOT to cry!

I am so blessed!!! I love this woman!
So perfect!
And it's even PURPLE on the back! Tyson would be happy with that because he knows I'm the one that will be using it the most.

What an amazing thing to be able to cuddle up in this quilt of love and blessings and be able to feel him close. I know that is what it will do for all of us. I was going to hang it on the wall and make it sure it was untouchable to prevent it from getting worn and used, but my sister in law Karen told me to not do that. She told me to keep it out and let the boys curl up in it and it will wrap them up in the memories of their loving brother. If it's on the wall, that won't happen. And she said, if it gets worn, then that just proves it was loved and well used. She totally changed my thinking. It is now on our couch to spread the love. I guess that is what quilts are made for. To bring warmth not only to the body, but also to the heart and soul. This one will definitely do that!
Click on these to enlarge so you can read the individual FAVORITE squares.

One of my best memories is of Tyson is driving that car of his. How he loved to drive. He loved to take his younger bros driving around. His trunk was fully stocked with toilet paper as well. (I learned that after!) He got pulled over so much for under age driving because he was so small, that the cops all knew him by name!
I love the one above that says: Greatest Physical Attribute: I'm bigger than a midget.
Worst Physical Attribute: I'm almost as small as one.
That is just so Tyson! How I miss that boy!


You can't tell me he isn't with us! I found this penny that day and it wasn't just any penny. It's a 2005 penny. The year he passed away. I KNOW it was sent from him to let me know he is near. Thanks bud!





That night me and McKay and my parents headed to Salt Lake for Taylor's basketball game. We went to Bryce's house in Sugarhouse so we could take him out to dinner before the game. Dave couldn't make it that early because he was on call.



This is at Bryce's house ↓. My Mom with Gary the dog. He is Bryce's roomate's dog. He is a pitbull and he made my Mom a little nervous, even though Bryce says he won't hurt a flea. Bryce has kind of taken over ownership of Gary. He has taught him many tricks and Gary loves him. He needs a dog of his own.

Down boy! haha
I love this one!


He likes you Mom!
My Dad likes him. He loves all animals!
Gary jumping HIGH for a treat!
Some photos of Bryce with Gair-dog.
LOL
Gotta love Gary!


I didn't get a picture of it, but he will give you a high five!



At East High for Taylor's Varsity basketball game. He was a starter.
These guys were HUGE!
That BIG guy next to Taylor (#2) is named Big Eric (#50). He was ginormous!
Taylor is big, so you can see how huge Big Eric is! Sheesh!

We had an off day. None of our shots were going in! Taylor had an awesome game against Layton earlier in the week. He had 9 points and 7 rebounds!

The student body at East had THEE worst sportsmanship I have ever witnessed! They threw stuff on the floor and yelled some really bad things to our players. They boo-ed every time Shad had the ball until he passed it. I am so proud of our Bee fans. They are awesome sports!



All in all for such a bad day, it was a pretty good one...
Now go give your kids a hug and tell them that you love them!
And always remember to:



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