Monday, January 15, 2018

*Monday Memos*

*MONDAY MEMOS*

   
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Weekly recap of my rather crazy, insane, but fun and rewarding life!


dear monday, I got up early and it was so quiet and peaceful.  I loved it.  I have been lacking in that department lately.  I just soaked it in.  It felt so good to be able to just be still.  No pressure.  I did put away all the ornaments and that took quite a bit of time.  Not my favorite thing to do, but I am so grateful everyone helped last night or I would have spent all day on it.  My body was feeling unusually sore on my right side and both hips and since it was painful to even walk, I decided I probably shouldn't run today. Jen text me to go on a hike with her and I debated for a while as to what to do because I love going with her, but I decided I better be a wimp and not chance an injury.  We did go to lunch though.  We went to Old Grist and had a great three hour chat.  
Time always flies when we get talking.  It's always fun to catch up.  I can NOT believe she is a grandma!  Seriously, I cannot believe it!  Crazy!  She is a great person and I love spending time with her.  We have been through a lot together over the years and it's always so good to have a friend that gets you and doesn't judge no matter what.  I came home and should have cleaned or practiced, but I just enjoyed the quiet and did some reading and catching up on stuff that Christmas put me behind on.  We had leftover Wok for dinner and so that was easy.

dear tuesday, I had a hard time sleeping after about 2 a.m.  Gah!  Frustrates me so much!  It was pouring rain when I got up.  Dave left to go play Pickleball and I broke my new morning plan all to heck today and did my email and social media before I did what I had planned.  But, I knew I wouldn't be perfect at it. Oh, and I also ate cake for breakfast. 
I guess if you're going to blow it, you might as well go all the way!  I love cake!  Cake is my weakness.  Sounds like one of the characters in Jumanji. I can't remember his name, but cake was his weakness and it made him explode.  It makes me explode too, but in a different way!  hah  It really is true though...cake IS a weakness for me.  But, if I had no self control, I would have eaten the entire leftover pan of it and enjoyed every bite.  Fortunately, I do have some self control, though very little when it comes to cake.  The scales can attest to that the past two days.  Sigh...  But, at least if I eat it in the morning it will be less likely to be stored as "cake" in the thighs and buttocks right?  Right or not, it was a very tasty breakfast. 
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We can at least pretend...
I dressed in my rain gear and headed out to get in my shower, therapy, and exercise all at once.  It was still raining hard.  I sat in my car for a while hoping it would slow down a bit (while I responded to group texts) and luckily it did.  It was only sprinkling when I started out. I got in five miles and found some coins at the high school parking lot. Yay.  
No pix of the run because my phone battery died again.  Dave was off today.  I practiced my harp for quite a while because I hadn't got in much time last week.  I worked on photos and had to delete a ton from my PC because I am almost out of storage.   I have less than 5 GB's right now.  Not good.  Since Dave was off and it was raining, I planned an afternoon date for us since Friday nights haven't been working lately.  We left at 3:45 and went to Maddox's drive in and got mini burgers and then went to see The Greatest Showman. I have read so much about it and everyone is hyping it up saying it's the best movie EVA and so I have been really excited to see it.  I think it was a bit over hyped.  Don't get me wrong, I loved it, but I think I was expecting more from all the hype.  However, having said that, I would recommend it to anyone.  It had several great messages throughout and I would go see it again.   Of course, that would be the case with any movie starring Hugh Jackman.
Dave had meetings and I tried to catch up on the blog a bit. I should be cleaning, but I can't get motivated to do that right now.  I have been savoring the peace and quiet the past two days because I haven't had any of that for the past month with the holidays.


dear wednesday, I actually slept in until 6 a.m. today but then Dave rolled over and woke me up.  Oh well, at least I got more than I normally do.  I practiced the harp for an hour and then got ready and headed to my lesson.  It went well.  I feel like I am finally progressing a bit faster than before even though things are more difficult. Maybe that's why, because I have to practice much harder now.  I then went to Farmington and tried to find Dave a leather jacket. Nope.  I think I have looked at every single store now.  The one I found at TJMaxx I had to return because the arms weren't long enough.  Dang.....it was one nice jacket too.  I found Taylor some shoes at Nordstrom Rack, so that was good.  I sent him pix of a bunch and he told me which he liked best.  He narrowed it down to two so I got both and will return one later.  He kind of needs to see them in person to really tell. Which one did he pick?
I then went to Riverdale and returned a few things there.  I also hit Kitchen Kneads and felt like my life was in danger. It's in one scary part of town.  I talked to mom for over an hour on the phone.  I made dinner but Dave was late getting home.  He had meetings and sadly I felt like I accomplished nothing because I was so dang tired.  Not sure if it's age, lack of sleep, nutrition (that cake for breakfast!), too much running (nah), exhaustion from such a busy month with Christmas, or what, but I'm tired of being tired! Even my tired is tired!  I feel like I'm never going to catch up this blog!  Argh!
So, today, my ONE WORD reminder necklace arrived.  I took a photo of it and low and behold will you looky there?  My FOCUS is out of focus!  Oh, the irony.  I pray it's not a sign of things to come!  Brouhaha!
On another note, Dave was given this↓ by an overly generous lady.  

dear thursday, I headed out and got in an 8 miler today. I can't run tomorrow and so I decided I better go at least 8. I am so not looking forward to my 14 miler on Saturday.  But...it has to be done!  My bones hurt from running today.  Not sure what is going on but I am feeling the effects more this round.  Got a little bit of snow.

 It is crazy to me that here it is mid January and we have ZERO snow on the ground right now.  Can't ask for better conditions than that to train in!
It's feeling more like spring than winter!
I went to Homemakers and Julie Ellis gave a talk titled, "You Are Awesome!"  It was "awesome"! 
I didn't "hang around" and chat much because I had to get home and get a lot done.  We take dinner to Dave's parents every Thursday and so I worked on that and then had to run back to the dentist to pick up my trays.  The bottom one didn't work and so Lori did it again.  I chatted with Robin and Katelyn (about Taylor - she is going to get him married off! Hah).  I ran to Wallies to grab some stuff for the Hoop Shoot tonight and it was really windy.  Like hurricane force winds!  Okay, maybe not quite, but sheesh!  I ran Dave's parents dinner to them and then went to the church for the stake YW Hoop Shoot.  It turned out really well.  We had a clinic first and then the contest. We had way too many treats though.  Mostly just Beehives showed up.  
I actually had more energy tonight than I have lately and so I published a blog post. I am still so far behind though.  This dang blogging takes so much time. I truly wonder if I should keep doing this, but something I can't explain compels me to do it. I got the Sista VDay invite out too. 

dear friday, I had to be to Sky's to tend Carson by 9:15 a.m.  He was still sick but feeling a lot better.  He was pretty excited to have me there and showed me all his toys and we watched part of a movie.  I took him some prizes.  Some Lincoln Logs and some gummy bears and a couple other things.  We went outside for a bit.  He had a lot of energy.  Hopefully, he over his sickness.
We talked to the horses and decided to go get an apple for one.  Carson named them.  The one he named Star is the one we gave an apple to. I tried to smash it into half by throwing it on the ground but it didn't work.  When we gave it to Star, he bit it in half and broke it.  He ate it and was loving it, but then he started to choke.  I felt so bad!  I wasn't sure what to do because he was on the other side of the fence and so I told Carson that I think we just killed him.  We decided we better say a prayer to ask HF to help him.  We did.  He was still choking!  So Carson said we better pray again.  We did.  He was still choking.  We prayed at least three times.  Panic!  He finally stopped choking.  Whew!  Then he started again!  But he eventually stopped for good.  I told Carson we needed to thank HF for answering our prayer and helping Star.  So we did.  It seriously was a miracle. I could see him choking to death right there as we watched.  Oh. My. Goodness.  And he's a show horse too!  Yeah.   Once we knew he was going to be okay, we went inside and played some games.  Carson is a total blast to hang out with.  Sarah came home and we decided to head to the clinic to get her head looked at by Dave because she had a huge bump on it and Sky was very concerned (all the way from California) and insisted she go.  She isn't comfortable driving here yet and so she was going to follow me (I had Carson with me), but I took the wrong turn out of their apartment. She made it there okay though.  We had to wait a while before the surgery room was open so Carson played like he was the doctor.  He examined my leg and cut it open (pretend) and dug all kinds of stuff out of it.  Great doc!
Dave lanced Sarah's head to get the infection out.  He gave her several shots to deaden it and she was pretty brave but you could tell it hurt her and she was very scared.  I felt so bad for her.  Carson was so cute.  He held her hand and whispered to me, "We need to say a prayer for my mom."  So we did.  Dave worked on her for a very long time.  I really felt so bad for her. I am sure it was killing her.  Poor thing.  
FINALLY, he was done and we headed to Walmart to get her script for an antibiotic.  Carson found a bunch of furry friends!
Sarah had a hot pink corban band around her head thanks to Dave.  I said goodbye to them and Carson was sad, but I told him he was coming to Grammy's party on Sunday which helped a little, but not much.  Dave didn't get home until about 7:30.  We ate at Old Grist so I could carb load.  I love their grilled sandwiches.  Turkey Bacon Pesto!  Mmm....  
I hid some water on my route for my long run tomorrow.  We watched a movie on TV. It was a Three Musketeers one.  I fell asleep after about 20 minutes.  Hah.  Big date night!

dear saturday,  I was really dreading my long run today.  It always takes me a while to really get it in my brain that it's here and happening.  Today was a 14 miler.  I expressed my sentiments to Dave.  Well, more of a, "Why do I do this to myself?"  He responded with, "Because you can!".  I was grateful he reminded me of that at that moment because I really needed to hear those words.  I met Sheri at 7:30 a.m.  Originally we were going to run to Perry and back, but I just could not wrap my head around that.  I decided it wouldn't seem so far and long if we did a bit of an out and back and avoided Perry.  At least when I do my 10 milers, that is how it feels.  Sheri was on board.  She is pretty much good with whatever.  My hips have still been sore and painful, and bothered me during but not as much as I thought they would.  I forgot about the hidden water and so we stopped at the Nat for a drink.  We were just a bit over halfway then.  I was not feeling as good as I usually do on long runs and I was much slower, but we ended up doing a 10:12 overall pace so I was okay with that.  Not sure I could have pushed it much more with how the old bod was feeling.  I miscalculated a bit and so we were done when we still had over a half mile to go and I was ready to walk as soon as our Garmin's beeped.  Sheri would have ran another 14, but I was done.  It felt good to have that checked off. 
I look a little giddy.  I think I was just SO glad to be done!

I felt like I had done a 20 miler.  I took a hot shower and that helped. Taylor showed up and we caught up.  McKay was still here as well. I spent the day working on my SS lesson, cleaning, and making lasagna for dinner tomorrow, which took an hour.  Lasagna is my all time favorite, but I don't make it as often as I would if it were a little quicker to make. I do have a good crockpot lasagna recipe, but it's not quite as good as my regular one.  I ran to the store and bought a bunch of food for the boys to take back to college.  They always appreciate that.  Taylor headed back as did McKay.   
Mr. Cat loving this mild winter as much as I am!
The case of the missing snowmen has been solved!  Dave found all of them in a box in the basement.  Not sure how the story on that one pans out, but just glad they have been found!

dear sunday, I got up early as per norm.  I worked on my lesson, my mom's cake, her gift, party prep for tonight, the dinner, and barely made it to church on time even though it doesn't start until 1:00 pm.  
She wanted money and so I had to think of a creative way to give it to her.  The candles (made out of paper I printed on the computer) have money in them.  Kinda fun!
I made my mom a chocolate raspberry ganache cake, but it had a mind of it's own.  I cut it in four layers and the top layer decided it wanted to be the second layer.  Sigh.  I had to dowel it and work my magic but somehow I managed to get it lookalike presentable.  That's what you get when you do things on the Sabbath that probably should have been done the day before.  Sacrament was really good. Kim and Audrey spoke and I loved both talks.  Audrey inspired me to want to get back into family history or indexing just by doing it once a week.  Kim talked about goal setting.  I needed both talks.  My lesson went well. I am really liking this new class. I told them the story of how Carson and I almost killed the horse and how we prayed and prayed and our prayers were answered even though I didn't have that story in my lesson plan but I felt inspired to tell it.  I have learned that personal stories always grab their attention 10x more than one you read or tell.  I need to use more of them.  I had teacher development during RS and I told them that experience because that is what the lesson was on. I told them it wasn't in my lesson plan, but I felt inspired to tell it and how sometimes I feel I failed if I don't get in everything that I had planned.  I rarely get all of it in, and I still feel like I left something out, where truthfully, they gain more from hearing the unplanned stuff.  I rushed home and worked on my mom's dinner.  No boys were going to be here tonight but Sarah and Carson were coming.  Dave helped me with the salad and then everyone arrived.  Carson was so cute. For her birthday, he made my mom a picture and picked out a frame to hold a photo of her and him (and me) and also a panda night shirt.  I made lasagna but it wasn't as good as usual. Not sure why.  Carson said something to Grammy about the whole horse story and the apple.  He said, "And we were prayer-ing....".  Too funny.  He said he is glad Star didn't die.  Me too!  Whew!  After dinner we had her cake.  It was pretty dang good if I do say so myself.   Then we opened presents and Carson was so stinkin' cute.  It was fun just visiting.  He wanted to play so I asked him to bring out the toys in the family room so we could still visit with everyone.  He brought out Star Wars and we played.  My parents left and then McKay showed up.  He had been to SLC to the worldwide devotional by Pres. Uchtdorph with Maddie. I was happy they went together.  Sarah and Carson stayed awhile longer.  I have to say I was beat.  Sunday is NOT a day of rest!  Hah
Snowmen today!
Presents from Carson.  He picked them out for her.  
Dang good cake if I do say so myself!  Can't wait for breakfast tomorrow!  :)
Happy 79th birthday to my AMAZING Mom!!! I sure do love her!
Mr. Cat is so tolerant of Carson.  He is not like this with everyone.  Too funny!  Let me rephrase that.  He is not like this with anyone!  Just Carson. Carson has a way with people and animals.

McKay and Maddie at the worldwide devotional in SLC.  They turned the lights back on just for tonight.  Cute couple.

dear quotes, all running quotes this week because I need the motivation!



dear random, I read this on a blog and I wanted to add it here because
I thought it was very motivating.


From: Elyse from Notes on Bliss 

17 powerful miracle mindset shifts to take into 2018.
A miracle is a shift in your perception (mindset) that creates miracles in your life (love, money, success, freedom, happiness).
These are the thoughts of billionaires, the happiest people, those brave souls living their authentic magical best life, instead of the safe-but-boring life everyone expects of them.
1. Stay close to the things that make you feel alive.
We make it so hard. We ignore what actually makes us happy (personal growth, facing our fears, travel, deep conversations, the stars, pampering, creative expression, music, doing what we love) and instead try to squeeze happiness out of the wrong job, the wrong relationship, getting approval from others, procrastination, and our comfort zone. It’s like trying to squeeze coffee from a stone. Not happening.
This year stay close to (or pursue) what makes you feel fully alive.
2. The work takes work.
Some people come to me wanting a magic pill to happiness, worthiness and manifesting their dreams. The truth is that transformation is a process and it takes commitment. If you want a magic pill to your divine powers and fabulous abundant life, I'll give you one = a mirror. Because YOU are the secret ingredient to owning your worth, raising your vibration, and living with purpose and passion.
3. You will never escape your heart and soul so listen to what they have to say.
You can feel when you are not tapping into your full potential or following your desires. This feeling will not go away; it will only get stronger so you may as well pay attention to it.
4. It's not what you think you are that holds you back; it's what you think you're not.
Have you ever thought this? I’m not good enough. I’m not pretty enough. Smart enough. Capable enough. Worthy enough. Enough.
I call BS!!! You are an unlimited being of light. You were born inherently powerful, creative, worthy, loving, capable, abundant, and you matter way more than you know. You are needed.
Anything else is just a story. Start to own your truth. You ARE enough. You CAN do whatever you set your mind and heart to. You DO deserve an epic life. You CAN make a difference.
5. The standard of success in life is absolutely the amount of joy you feel (Abraham Hicks).
So many people do things for conformity, approval or security, without actually questioning the price they are paying... happiness. Measure your success by the amount of joy you feel.
6. You don't need to know how to create your dreams.
The how is not up to you. When you have a desire, your inner being immediately calculates at least 20 or 30 ways to make that happen for you. Your job is to believe, to vibrate with the energy of your desires, and to follow the inspired nudges... the baby steps. It can be so much easier than you thought was possible, and your impossible dreams become possible, through the power of miracles.
7. The longer you wait, the longer you wait.
A year from now you could be in a totally different place. But the longer you wait, the longer you'll wait.
8. You are worthy for no reason.
You are worthy because you live in an infinite holographic Universe of parallel realities where your dreams already exist. You cannot not be worthy of them; they already exist.
Abraham Hicks teaches that the cosmos is constantly providing a limitless downpour of blessings, abundance, love and opportunities to you. Your downpour (thriving and success) does not take away from anyone else. Some people have just put up their umbrella to block the miracles.
9. When you show up for the world, the world shows up for you.
The world is responding to your vibration and action. When you take a step towards your truth, alignment or your deepest desires, the Universe takes a thousand steps. But you have to go first.
10. Sometimes faith has to be the down payment on our future.
So many people stay stuck because they don't know how their desires are going to unfold. This is where faith comes in. Faith is believing in your desires before they show up. That is the whole point. If your dream was a reality, it wouldn’t require faith. Believe and you shall receive.
11. If it's both terrifying and amazing you should definitely pursue it.
If you are not growing, you are dying. Our comfort zone is by definition comfortable but few miracles happen there. If you are terrified it is probably a good sign you are expanding.
12. Make time for YOU and you will be amazed how much more life you have time for.
Invest time in yourself each day. Because 17 seconds of alignment is worth 2000 hours of hard work. You cannot compete with the power of source energy, so learn to use it to your advantage.
That is what the Mastermind is all about. It sounds like an investment of your time, but the 2 hours a week you spend on this high vibration life-changing material, will actually save you thousands of hours of busyness, struggle, drama and hard work. Because you will learn to be present, in your authentic truth and power, and a magnet to creative ideas, guidance from your inner wisdom, and miracles.
13. You can be the victim or hero of your own story.
I know it’s tempting to blame and stay stuck. 1000 times a year my ego mind tells me, if only you had a non-toxic mother, then you would be different. Then you would believe in yourself more.
But the truth is only you can be your own knight in shining armour. You cannot change the past but you can create a new future. And it starts now. Your point of power is what you decide now.
14. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results (Einstein).
You have to change your approach to get a different result.
15. You need to change the software to change what's on the screen.
Success is an inside job. What's stopping you is on the inside.
When you shift the patterns in your mind, and learn to deliberately focus your thoughts and emotions, you can live the life that you desire. Change your mindset and energy = change your reality.
16. Sell yourself on the idea that you deserve a great life.
Because you do. You are the Universe experience itself as a human. Give it a good show!
17. It takes consistency to create magic.

You don't have to be extreme or perfect... you just have to be consistent. Consistency is what creates huge change over time. Small daily shifts over time lead to huge miracles and dreams coming true.

 Jack Canfield's article about visualization can be found HERE.  It is really good.



Monday, January 8, 2018

*Monday Memos*

*MONDAY MEMOS*

   
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Weekly recap of my rather crazy, insane, but fun and rewarding life!


dear new year's day 2018!  

My top nine photos on Instagram this year:


Facebook made this collage of my top photos but it's hard to see:
The new year started off pretty early even though I got to bed so late.  I wish I could just sleep 7 or 8 hours a night.  But noooooo........ Miss Menopause has taken over.  It's called meno"pause" because there is such a pause in the sleep pattern now.  But, it is what it is and I do fine until about 7 or 8 pm.  I feel like my parents!  Hah  I used to accomplish so much more in the late hours, but I can kiss that out the window now! I am ready for bed by then!  I turned on the parade and watched a bit of that, but Carson wanted to play and so we did.  Then I went on a short five mile run.  It was pretty chilly.  This photo has a dead snake in it.  I have run over it a million times and never noticed it before.  It's petrified but very much a snake.  Just goes to show you how much we miss in this world that is right in front of us.
It's been such a mild winter this year. I am very grateful for that.  Not fun to train for a marathon in winter no matter what, but much better when the roads aren't snowpacked and icy.  When I got home, McKay and Carson were watching Cinderella.  My boys are so good to hang out with him when I'm gone.  But he's so fun to be around, they love it.  I was hoping to get my Christmas put away today, but decided to spend the time having fun with the fam instead.  We went to see Jumanji at Walker's.  It was REALLY good!  It had it's parts, but that's hard to avoid anymore, but it was funny and entertaining.  
I had to take Carson to the restroom three times, but other than that, we had a good time.  We all went.  Dave, Sky, Sarah, Taylor, McKay, me and Carson.  We came home and hung out.


My word for the year post is HERE.
I choose the word FOCUS for 2018, for many reasons.  
My Boston Marathon training plan for the next four months.

dear death of a prophet
Today was a sad day.  President Thomas S. Monson, our church President and prophet passed away today.  He has not been doing too well lately and so it is a blessing, but he will be sorely missed.  He was one incredible man.  I am in awe of his life which was filled with service.  He was made Bishop when he was 22 years old!  Served as a mission president at age 31.  And an apostle when he was only 36!  His life was one, that if even a fraction of it we emulated, we would find ourselves in good standing.  He set the bar very high.  I feel very fortunate that I was able to meet him on two separate occasions.  The first time was when he was a member of the First Presidency and came to our ward because his brother Scott was a member of our ward and when Scott's son, Scottie returned from his mission, he came to his homecoming address.  I remember Skyler was nine years old at the time and I wanted him to be able to meet him.  So, I figured that Pres. Monson would leave the meeting before it actually ended to avoid having everyone swarm him as I am sure he was on a tight schedule.  I decided to take a chance and take Skyler out in the hall by the drinking fountain in case he left early and he walked down that particular hall.  There were four halls and six doors he could have used and so I just took a chance with that one.  I choose the right one thankfully, and within a few minutes he came out the chapel doors and walked down the hall where we were standing.  He was looking straight ahead and focused on the door as he walked passed me and so in order to get his attention I had to say, "President Monson, my son Skyler would really like to meet you!"  He stopped immediately and put all his focus on Skyler and shook his hand and said something which I can't remember now, but what a moment!  Too bad I didn't take all the boys out, but they were pretty young.  I wish I would have taken Tyson though.  He would have been six.  But it was an memorable experience.  
This is a photo from his funeral that was posted on social media of his brother Scott and his family (who was in our ward).
Then when his best friend Jack H. (who also lived in our ward), passed away, he came to his funeral.  Dave was Bishop at the time and so he was asked to help escort him when he arrived.  They had the parking lot set up and reserved just for his car and Dave had to wait for his arrival.  I had Taylor and McKay with me this time hoping they could meet him.  They were communicating via radio and as we were waiting for him to pull in his designated spot, they received communication he was going to the other side of the building.
So, I made the boys run to the other hall with me.  I can't remember how it all worked out, but I believe he ended up parking in the spot originally reserved after we had ran to the other side.  We ended up not meeting him as he arrived but shortly after as he walked down the hall by our ward library.  Dave was with him and he stopped and introduced us to him.  Dave said, "President I would like you to meet my wife and boys."  He stopped and shook our hands.  Dave told him Taylor had just been called to Brazil to serve his mission and he stopped, and had the funniest look on his face and said, "Good luck getting that Visa!  You may be waiting for a very long time!  I will put in a good word for you!'  Haha  He was so cute.  He has one the funniest sense of humors of any church leader I know.   I truly wish I would have got a photo of him with us or at least with the boys, but I didn't dare push it.  However, when he went into the chapel for the funeral, I was sitting on the side on a bench with Dave's sister Linda and I got out my phone to sneakily take a photo of him and Dave together but my sneakiness back fired on me.  I forgot to turn off the flash!  YES!  Here is the  Bishop's wife sitting in the audience in the chapel and she takes a photo WITH A FLASH!  At a funeral!  I about died!  Linda was dying. I was dying.  But we were also giggling under our breath because we couldn't believe I did that!  Oh. My. Gosh!  But in the end it was worth it because I got a great photo!  One I will always cherish!  And I don't think anyone really noticed except Dave.  
I also got this one of him sitting next to him.  Both are blurry because I was trying to be inconspicuous.  I did get a bit of a lecture after by Dave for doing that.  But he knows me too well.  I had to document it for posterity!  It was an incredible experience. More so for Dave because he got to be with him the entire time. They told him he was in charge of his safety even though he had his body guards with him.  BIG responsibility!  He also was invited attend the family prayer.  
I didn't take this ↑ photo.  I can't remember who did, but it was given to me.  Anyway, it was a once in a lifetime experience.  
Our home teacher sent me this one.
Dave has met several of the brethren.  He actually took care of President Benson when he was the prophet when Dave was doing his internship at LDS Hospital.  That is a story for another day though.  
President Monson, you will be missed.  
Til' we meet again....

To read a short version of his amazing life go HERE.
And check out this short video of him below ↓


dear tuesday, I got up and practiced my harp to get ready for my lesson.  I headed out and it was really chilly today.  My lesson went pretty well.  She was very happy with my pieces and how far I've come.  I am almost in Book Two. I asked her how long it takes most people to get through Book One and she said that it depends, but anywhere between nine months (she has one student actually do that she said) and 10 years. She also had one take ten years. She said I should feel very good about it taking me less than two years.  She said two years is a good time.  I am starting on Canon in D!  Yay!  That song has always spoke to me and I have dreamed of learning it on the harp even before I started to take lessons.  Some day it may come in handy when I am asked to play at a wedding.  haha  After my lesson, I headed to make a few returns and try to find Dave a leather jacket for his birthday on Sunday.  His current one is literally falling apart but he still wears it!  Gah!  I also went to Costco for lunch (aka their samples!).  Definitely fills you up!   I probably should have stayed and got more done (birthday gifts for Dave, my Mom and Dad, and Sarah), but I wanted to get home and spend time with the boys. Dave was on call this week and so he was pretty late getting home.  I am sad the boys have to go back next week.  I love having them home.  


dear wednesday, I got in a five miler again today.  I ran to the high school and found my first penny for the new year (among a few other coins!).  I found another one on the way back.  
I put away Christmas today but it took me all day because I ended up going to the orthodontist twice and the dentist twice today.  What happened is I had an ortho appointment today and I was SO excited because I'm done with my aligners!  When Clark looked at my teeth, he asked if I was happy and I said the only thing bugging me was the little triangle hole between two of my front teeth that makes it look like I have a poppy seed stuck there.  He agreed and so thought about going longer with the aligners but didn't think he could close it all the way plus he would have to manipulate the bottom teeth more and I really wanted to be done.  He then had a great idea of seeing if my dentist could put a bit of a composite filling there to close it.  He wasn't sure if he could because it might be too noticeable etc.  So he sent me over to Dr. Mac's to see what he thought.  He was nice enough to take a look and wasn't sure if he could but he wanted to do a sample one to see so he asked me to come back when he had a space later that day.  I went back at 4:00 and I was happy with the sample and so I am going to have it done after I get my teeth whitened to the shade I want them.  Then I went back to Clark to have him remove the attachments and put in my bottom permanent retainer.  I will go get a mold done for my upper once I have the composite in.  So, I had my ortho at 2:00 and went to the dentist at 2:30 and then again at 4:00 and back to the ortho about 4:30.  I was there on my last ortho visit for about an hour and so I spent a lot of time today in a dentist chair.  But it was worth it because I AM DONE with the aligners and I am very happy with my teeth!  For some reason the triangle shape that was bothering me is completely gone!  Not sure how, but my teeth look like before and that was the one thing that was making me feel discouraged. But now they are back...AND straight!  I am so happy with them.  I might even say those two and half years were actually worth it!  hah  I really am impressed with Clark as well as Dr. MacArthur.  I think I have the best in both.  I was in such a happy mood and kept looking in the mirror and smiling.  Wow!  It was a long two and a half years and a lot of the time I wasn't sure if it was going to be worth it, but today I am sure happy it was!  I don't have a good photo of my new smile yet, so I'll have to use this bad one for now, but here's the before and after of my teeth.

I finished putting away Christmas and put up my snowmen.  I didn't get a chance to get my mom's calendar started yet.  Gah. I must get moving on that!  I was ready for bed by 8 PM!  I need to start sleeping past 3:30 AM so I can stop this!

dear thursday, I got in a five miler again this morning. I probably should stretch it to 7 or 8 but most mornings I am lucky to have time for a five. 
Hard to tell, but there were the prettiest little ice crystals on this board walk.
I took Taylor and McKay shopping today. McKay needed a new suit (long story) and a few clothes and Taylor needed some shoes.  We hit Costco first in hopes the samples would curb their appetite until lunch time.  They found some things there and McKay was raving about Costco. I am not sure if he had ever really shopped there before.  We then hit Men's Wearhouse but their sales were all at Christmas and so since I was not going to spend $800 on a suit, we moved on.  We went to JCP and actually found one for him.  He always ends up with the first thing he tries on.  The prices were not as low as they had been but I figured it was worth it in time because I had no idea when I would get him back out shopping.  Taylor never found any shoes but got some pants for church and some Levis.  We hit Ross, TJMaxx, Sears, and a couple more.  We ate at Rumbi.  They were patient and it was actually a lot of fun.  
Since I was gone all day, Dave made soup and a salad to take to his parents. I made RK treats the night before and we took some french bread. 
We had corn chowder and my leftover Tuscano soup for dinner.  I had a meeting for Stake YW sports at 6 PM.  It was just Ayako, me and the new leader, Ann.  We planned out Hoop Shoot for next week.  I came home and Dave was still not home.  I made the boys dinner and then I crashed pretty early again.  I watched a couple episodes of This is Us.  I am way behind. It's a really good series.  I honestly do not know where people find the time to watch all of these series on TV.  

dear friday, I debated whether to do my long run (13 miler) today or tomorrow.  But it looks like it's going to be raining/snowing tomorrow and so I decided to do it today.  The only problem was I had to break it up because I had a dentist appt at 11:30 to get my whitening trays made.  So, I got in eight miles and then went to my appt. and did five more after.  It wasn't too bad, but I was so done by the time I got home.  I am not sure how much longer I can keep training for fulls.  It's going to be especially bad this round because Robin is not training.  Hopefully, Sherrie will run the longs ones with me.  
I gave Taylor a haircut (much needed one) and then ran and tried to finish shopping for Dave and Sarah's birthday. I didn't have much luck.  When I got home Taylor was gone on a date and McKay was at a hockey game in SLC. Taylor and his date actually went there too.  
I practiced my harp (Canon in D) and then offered to go get Carson at the shop where Sky and Sarah were building Dave something for his birthday.  Dave ended up picking him up on his way home.  He was so cute as always.  He definitely brightens things up around here. I just love that little guy so much.  We played and played and played.  The boys are so cute with him too.  Then we went up and watched Cinderella. I could hardly keep my eyes open and when I saw the time I realized why. It was 11:37 PM!  He slept on my chair.  It felt so good to hit the hay!
Ice melts Shopko had out.  So pretty!

dear saturday,  100 days to Boston! 
Bryce was here when we woke up!  It was so good to see him.  Carson woke up pretty early too.  
I headed out and got in five miles before it started to rain/snow too hard. I got a bit wet and it was chilly, but so happy I did my 13 yesterday instead of today because it was pretty miserable.  I came home and Carson wanted to play so I hurried and showered and had him help me make chicken salad.  I tried out a new recipe, though it's very similar to mine.  It was good.  I needed to add some Maddox seasoning to it to give it a bit more flavor though.
CHICKEN SALAD RECIPE 
6 cups cooked chicken (make sure you season it as cook it or use rotisserie)
2 cups diced celery
1 small can water chestnuts diced
2 cups mayonnaise 
1/2 cup lemonade
1/2 cup diced green onion
1 cup diced grapes
1 cup sliced almonds
2 tsp salt (I season my chicken good so maybe a little less salt) 
2 tsp garlic powder
1 can chow mein noodles added right before serving (optional) 

We played and then I headed to the store to get stuff to make my Wok dinner for Dave and Sarah's birthday tomorrow. It was really snowing!  It was so pretty.  We haven't had much snow this year at all.  It was so nice having ALL the boys here!  I played with Carson in the playroom for quite a while and then we made cookies and then I practiced the piano and worked on my lesson a bit. 
He helped me practice.  He wants to be by my side every minute and so I had him play the high notes instead of the low ones. I was still able to practice that way.  haha  He's so cute.
CJ came over and we all watched the Ram's game.  Sky made chicken wings and they were so good!  It was fun all hanging out together.  
Carson's tie was too small (wouldn't go around his head) and so I had to cut it and add elastic....well, I ended up dropping the foot on my sewing machine and it broke. A part flew off and I was sure it was toast and I would need a new sewing machine.  Sarah ended up fixing it!  I have no idea how she did it. I was totally amazed!  She is a very smart person and has a gift for things like that.  I am still in awe she did it and so fast and like it was no big deal.  Sky was impressed too.


dear sunday, I told Dave Happy Birthday at 5 AM before he left for his meetings.  Then laid there until Carson came in about 7 AM.  We played with Mr. Cat and did a bit of cleaning. 
Carson attacking McKay
I then cut up veggies for the Wok dinner I'm making later.  Then ironed McKay's and Taylor's new church clothes and while I was at it, I ironed ALL their clothes that needed it.  I was ironing for an hour at least.  Reminded me of when all my boys were little and I spent a good deal of Sunday's ironing their white shirts.  I know, I know, that should be done on Saturday or earlier in the week, but I'm being real here.  There was NO time to do it yesterday and so I guess the Ox was in the mire?  No excuse, I know.  But it is what it is.  I then worked on my Sunday School lesson. I have a new class today and I feel a bit of pressure.  I practiced the piano for RS. Lucky me, I got one of the hardest songs in the book and I'm pretty sure I will slaughter it.  Sigh...  I also made Dave's birthday cake and trying to figure out one for Sarah since it's her birthday also and I want her to feel special.  Sky was going to make her one last night, but we couldn't find a good version with good reviews.  It was the copycat PF Chang chocolate raspberry one.  So...now I am out of time and not sure what to do.  I colored with Carson and told Dave he needed to entertain him or I would not be going to church today because I wouldn't be able to get it all done.  Luckily, he did for a bit.  I still need to vacuum and dust and clean the bathrooms for the party tonight with his family and mine.  I also am frustrated because the tree didn't get taken down Friday or Saturday when I had all this help here but everyone has been so busy.  I need a short one so I can just do it myself without depending on others help.  So, I want to do that before the party, but it will be a huge mess and cause me stress.  Not sure which is worse....stress today with help, or stress tomorrow because I have to do it alone.  No boys will be here tomorrow and since they all leave tonight, I really think I need to just get it done.  Even though I probably won't have it all perfect before his party.  There is just not enough hours in the day. 
McKay in his new suit.  Sorry it's blurry.  He had his eyes closed in the only other one.
Church was really good.  Carson fell asleep the last five minutes of sacrament.  Our church now goes from 1-4 and so I'm sure many little ones were snoozing. 
Abby (one of his teachers) posted this last week on IG.  I thought it was so adorable I had to steal it!
My new SS class is great! I am really looking forward to this year.  They are all so cute and fun.  We did a lot of getting to know you things this week but the lesson part went well.  However, I totally slaughtered the opening song in Relief Society.  When I say slaughter, I mean slaughter!  Worse than I have ever done!  I just needed more time to practice and it didn't help that Julie E (who is a great pianist) said to me right before I started to play it, "Good luck with that song!  I refuse to ever play it.  It's the hardest one in the book!"  Yeah.  I. Know.  I guess if I had been smart, I would have just changed the dang song!  Especially sing the chorister didn't show up anyway. 10-15 years ago, it would have taken me a LONG time to get over messing up that bad, but it's funny how even though I was embarrassed about it, I really am fine with it.  I know most people won't remember it in a year and so why should I stress about it?   I grabbed cute Carson and we headed home.  Once home, I worked on the dinner, two cakes, cleaning, wrapping presents, etc.  McKay and I got in a little confrontation that wasn't expected, but we worked it out for the most part.  The dinner was yummy.  I haven't made my Wok dinner in quite a long time. It's Dave's favorite but it takes a good two hours to make.  

I had to add the outtake ones too ↓ Haha
After we got the dishes done, everyone showed up for the party.  We sang to Sarah first, and then Dave.  Carson helped blow out their candles.  The cakes were yummy.  I do love cake.  Since it was fast Sunday, I didn't feel guilty for eating a little bit of both.  
After everyone left, the boys (on their own without being asked) went to town taking off the ornaments and getting the tree out and even vacuuming up the needles which were EVERYWHERE!  I was so impressed at how everyone helped and it got done so fast.  If they hadn't helped, I would be doing it alone tomorrow and it would take me hours.  SO grateful for their help.  Bryce had to take off to head back to Idaho.
Shenanigans with Carson
We finally opened Dave and Sarah's presents and then everyone else left.  As part of her gift, we gave Sarah a Jim Shore Belle figurine.  I think she liked it!  Dave and I were alone!  Felt weird. So quiet, but kind of nice after a few crazy weeks! 


dear random
Taylor will have his BA degree in the spring!
McKay posted this as a memory from his mission.
Ahhh.....
A few snaps from my nieces
McKay's Friendmas feast at Bear Lake.  Pretty impressive for a bunch of college boys!
Gotta love it!  Just call me Jodido!
Bryce's snaps
Taylor got seats to go see his boy LaBron play the Jazz.
McKay DJ'd a single's dance on New Year's Eve.  He made dang good money too!
Not a bad heritage...

dear quotes
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